The Role Of Swipe Culture In Fueling Bad Dating Behavior
Tinder introduced the concept of swiping: left when you’re not interested, right if you think the person could be a good match. As of 2024, the dating app has amassed a global user base of 100 million active users, 75 million monthly users, and 42 million daily users.
Author:Suleman ShahReviewer:Han JuNov 12, 202494 Shares93.6K Views Swiping patterns mislead dating app algorithms, which might end up matching users with rude, superficial, disinterested, or overly eager people over and over again. Here’s how they can protect themselves.
Tinder introduced the concept of swiping: left when you’re not interested, right if you think the person could be a good match. As of 2024, the dating app has amassed a global user base of 100 million active users, 75 million monthly users, and 42 million daily users. They are all active, logging into the app 4-5 times per day on average.
The metrics used to determine Tinder and other apps’ algorithms can be based on how many messages users send their matches, the number of likes or matches a profile gets, or whether people exchange phone numbers.
Algorithms can’t determine what motivates specific behavior. Let’s say two users match, but one ends up offending the other somehow. Eventually, one blocks or unmatches the other. The algorithm sees a series of messages between two people and nothing more. It doesn’t understand the root cause of communication breakdown or why one person is unmatched with the other. All the algorithm saw was two individuals communicating.
Based on that, could the algorithm consider that communication as insight into a user’s “type?” Possibly, which explains why some dating app users constantly match with people who tend to make careless or rude comments. What about those who swipe right without looking at the profile, unmatching with the user soon thereafter? Could the algorithm start showing them profiles of other people who swipe inattentively?
Swipe culture has contributed to the rise of so-called serial dating. Serial daters move from relationship to relationship without making a long-term commitment. They love the proverbial “thrill of the chase.” Someone might date several people in the same week, hiding their true intentions. It’s possible to mitigate swipe culture’s negative effects. The first approach entails reading the whole profile before swiping. If one unmatches very often, the algorithm might consider their activity suspicious and suppress their profile’s visibility. You want the algorithm to perceive you as careful and thorough and try to match you with similar people.
According to a study reported by Time Magazine in 2023, most partners share up to 89% of traits and inclinations, such as alcohol consumption, extraversion or introversion, IQ, political values, level of education, proneness to depression, openness to experience, the age at which each person became sexually active, etc. Spend some time establishing rapport with a user before you agree to take communication off the platform. People that jump to give or ask for a phone number can be perceived as too eager, scammers, or trying to test your boundaries. The algorithm should understand selective and cautious behavior.
Different people have different thresholds for how long they’re comfortable communicating on dating apps, including when to provide contact information or meet in real life. However, delaying the process excessively is not reasonable, as the algorithm might think you’re looking for people who message often without asking you out. If a match says or does something that puts you off, block them. Algorithms flag profiles that are blocked by a lot of users.
Everyone is tempted by good looks, which is why attractive people don’t bother making an effort. Swiping right on an empty profile indicates that a user’s standards are low. Manipulative or controlling people might use that to their advantage.
This isn’t to say physical attraction should be ignored or underestimated as a factor predicting compatibility. 47% of Americans in a romantic relationship believe they are as attractive as their partner. 52% of women hold this belief, compared to 41% of men. 37% of men think their partner is more attractive than them, compared to just 14% of women. Finally, 17% of women and 12% of men think they are more attractive.