We typically wake up feeling unsettled after having a dream of having an argument. Do you try to avoid conflict in everyday life? Do you usually end up on the losing side of an argument? If you frequently dream about winning debates, that's a good sign that you're able to think critically and process information. Some people indeed thrive off of arguments, while others will do whatever it takes to avoid them. If your dream included yelling, shouting, fistfights, or squabbling, then it was likely a positive dream that might sharpen your thinking and serve as a wake-up call to try to comprehend how you are feeling.